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Some word vomit for your Sunday morning

So clearly, my last plan failed. To be honest, I haven’t opened my laptop since the last day I posted here. I got sick the next day and so did my daughter (not with coronavirus, although I can’t be completely sure of that, can I? because we sure don’t meet the qualifications for a test), and then honestly I forgot all about it. So here we are.

To be honest, I probably shouldn’t even plan to participate in any kind of challenge. To be honest, I’m not feeling particularly creative right now. All I really want to do is sleep and maybe read a little. I don’t feel depressed or anxious, I just feel kind of numb. I find it amusing to read social media posts from people who feel bored or who have all this free time. I guess I have a hard time remembering what life is like without small children around.

What will you do with all this extra time? the world asks. Learn to play an instrument! Paint the house! Organize your closet! Keep a daily journal of this extraordinary time in history! Take an online class! Watch all the movies! Do ALL THE THINGS!

All I want to do is take a nap. And read my book. Maybe sit out on my patio and get some sunshine occasionally.

If anything, my life is exactly like it was before the shutdown, only now the kids are just here all. the. time. I’m constantly serving food, mediating sibling disputes, kissing boo-boos, supervising schoolwork (and schoolwork-related anxiety attacks). And I do get more rest. That’s a good thing. But not so much with writing time. I used to occasionally have a few quiet hours on a Tuesday or Thursday if my husband was on day shift to be able to be creative but now…. not so much. It’s not a complaint so much as…. it is what it is. Uninterrupted time just does not exist.

My husband is an essential worker, so he still has to go to work every day. Will he be exposed to the virus at work? I don’t know. My oldest kid has diabetes and I have asthma, two conditions that increase the chances of dying if we do contract the virus.

[Insert first interruption here: Husband needed to get hangers out of our closet. Okay.]

Anyhow. It scares me a little, and sometimes I can feel the tension rising in my body when I read about how many confirmed cases there are and

[Second interruption: Kids barge in without knocking, certain Daddy is hiding in the bedroom. He’s not.]

Faith is something I struggle with. I grew up evangelical. I’ve done my time in many different states of religious/spiritual belief ranging from atheism to Unitarian Universalist to liturgical Christian to semi-agnostic holiday-observing-but-otherwise-non-practicing mishmosh of Christian/Jewish, with a smattering of admiration for earth-based and non-deity-centric spiritual practices, which is kind of sort of where I stand today. It would be nice to be able to have a religious faith guiding me through, but I just don’t. I don’t feel comfortable within any religious/belief system. I don’t really believe God has a plan or there is some deeper meaning or benefit to all of this. I’m just getting through one day at a time. Quiet resignation. It is what it is.

The thing I hate is what it is doing to my kids. I mean, they are fine, for the most part. My oldest will finish his semester online. He misses his friends but he is old enough to get this whole thing. My 9 year old daughter is a ball of anxiety and disappointment. She was gearing up for her dance recital, in rehearsals for her school play, she was finally thriving in a fantastic new school and looking forward to field trips and activities. She misses her friends and her teachers. Online school really sucks for her because she is such an extrovert and she loves participating in class and being around other kids. And my little guy is missing out on his one and only year of preschool, which I was enjoying almost as much as he was.

I am grateful that we are all well. I am grateful that my husband is still employed and that this shutdown doesn’t affect his salary or his job. I am grateful to be able to be home with the children. I am grateful that we are fed and housed and clothed and medicated. I am grateful for this big, comfy house with a backyard we can play in. Yet. It’s still a big pile of suck.

[Third interruption: Oldest kiddo needs me to double check his insulin pump insertion site.]

Anyhow this is getting long and has just become one big pile of word vomit, and I’m sure the next interruption is on its way, so I’ll end here for now. Stay home. Wash your hands. Peace.

1 thought on “Some word vomit for your Sunday morning”

  1. Oh Jeez…. know what is on my list EVERY SINGLE DAY (though admittedly, I didn’t maintain a list for a chunk of time in the middle there)? READ READER.
    That would be blog post reader, where the most precious of web spaces live.
    You wrote this post the day after my birthday, 500 thousand million years ago. And here I am, just now reading it. (5/5 in the year 4393)

    As always, an honest share. And whether you’re keeping to a challenge or not, whatever you put out into the world we are lucky to read. (Even if its decades later)

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